Behind the Mask of Success with Lisa Skeffington
4th November 2026
We spend so much time working towards becoming the person we think we should be that we can sometimes lose touch with who we actually are.
I explored this idea in my conversation with Warren Wandling on How to Become an Obstacle Buster. We looked at the relationship between self-esteem, personal expectations, and the internal experiences that influence how we navigate life and work.
I shared my perspective on high-functioning anxiety, the ways our need for approval and achievement can affect our sense of self, and why understanding our underlying patterns is so important. I also discussed psychodynamic mentoring and how it can support a deeper exploration of the challenges we experience.
This is something I feel strongly about: meaningful change doesn't come from simply trying to become better at meeting everyone else's expectations. It starts with understanding ourselves, recognising our needs, and developing a healthier relationship with who we are.
A Question for You
How much of the person you present to the world reflects how you genuinely feel about yourself?